How to deal with negative people

How to deal with negative people

The most important part of our life is a social life. And in social life, the most difficult thing is that deal with negative people.

We are living among several people, work with different people. Our family, our colleagues, our friends have connected us with several relationships.

But among this all relationships how to deal with negative people? how to deal with their mindset without arguments? This is the difficult part of us.

It's difficult to deal with them because according to them they are right, they think they can easily control you, they are self-obsessed, they are losing their temper without care anyone around them.

So without creating any problem with them how to deal and engaging with negative people easily? with full of respect, with positivity, you can easily deal with their negativity. Its a tough job but every question has a solution.


How to deal with negative people

So let's see which steps are useful to solve this problem.


Ignore if possible

I am an Indian and since my childhood days by my grandparents and my teachers I have used to hear the story of "Bhagvatgeeta". I learn all the lessons of my life survival from "Geeta". 

For negative people In "Bhagvatgeeta" lord Krishna says that change your sight to deal with them.

Negative people are talking more than listen. So ignore them, ignore to talk to them.

In case they talking with you and insult you first ignore it and tolerate them. Ignore their problems and try to suggest a solution. 


Try to say no

it's not easy to say no to negative people, because they are too aggressive and they never want to hurt their ego.

Try to say no, sometimes they are trying to forces you to solve their problems. If you do not agree and convinced about their problems say no.

Some pessimistic people never struggle to do anything and if you are making an effort to give some guidance then they feel irritated because their ego is important for them.

Negative peoples are suffering just because of their mind and their incorrect decision. Support them to change their sight. 

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Be grateful: To deal with negative people

Be good, be delighted when you are around negative people, never miss to give attention to your soul, and your positivity.

Our good behavior is a symbol of our identity, doesn't matter to communicate with any people but never takes off your good attitude.

Sometimes you just stuck to in a harsh situation while talking over with negative people, so on a bit give smile, be quite take a deep breath. It will help you to stop going on that way.

Stay positive by express your kind gesture, do some conversation related positive things when you are around negative people.


Don’t decline by into their negatively

We meet many strange people every day and in the first committee we can't recognize them and get them personally, and negative people are part of them you get their identity very shortly.

As I told you before they are talking more than you listen. And coincidence if you meet the first time you can feel it their vibe and their body language.

If they are trying to prove their point of you to let it be them, remember you are not part of them.

If they are unfair listen to them without any commenting. They are used to getting more reactions so never make an effort to give attention to them.

But never take serious to them, it's them not you. There is the greatest positivity that turns up from you when you don't take any seriously.


Change their sight: To deal with negative people

Try to change someone's sight it's a huge deal. Importantly when you are beginning on negative people.

I am not saying negative people are wrong and they are meaningless. They also have the right to express their sense, but we have to appreciate their situation.

Everyone has a generous mind, people are living their life according to their views.

Negative people are not bad, their way of thought process is a bit unfavorable.

It's happening with them because of their dilemmas, issues of pasts, and antagonistic attitudes.

So if they are beginning to talk about any unreasonable things try to change the subject, I know it is tough but you have to do that.

Change the subject it's not mean to insult anybody's talk, but if you are doing for their fortunate so do it in the exact direction.

Change the topic without dismissing them, you can divert their mind by saying good words about them and good compliment about their look.

They can feel fair, and touch your positive vibe and they will be beginning to engaging with you.


Conclusion

On a day-to-day basis, we met lots of negative people, some are attached to us.

It's a difficult task to deal with them but never forgets a good attitude is a good solution, so spread your love and your positive energy.

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  2. Written and explained very well ☺️

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